Relationships!!!

Hi

Before writing anything, I will apologize to my blog post that i have come to talk about relations here but have somehow not been able to maintain suitable "relation" with the blog even... I hope people to visit my blog and neglect it (my blog, it is my third post) myself... it does not mean that i have a bad heart or I do not have that "caring" attitude; itz just that I keep postponing. When I started with this blog I always thought I will take utmost care with visiting this blog; keep it updated... but somehow I FAILED!!!

Though I may give several reasons that I was busy; din have time to think about blogging; don generally have anything to write or say.. blah blah blah...... but these again are just excuses!!!!!

This is what exactly happens in relationships.... we sometimes forget, sometimes fail, sometimes genuinely become uninterested... and as a result all the promises that we make in the beginning are just gone... and then we start finding reasons..... and above all, being mature-responsible-gentle-educated-experienced we know these things and therefore feel we have every reason to do anything we feel like with anybody, anywhere, anytime etc..

I know I am sounding as a pessimist because after a long period I return to write something and then write about relationships.... neglecting all other important "other" things that i could do against talking about this pretty and ordinary and obvious philosophical stuff!! But this attitude of ours to give least priorities to people who are with us and our relations with them is mostly the reason why relations fail and importantly is something we have our most control on.. but but but as we are human beings and we are allowed to make mistakes and we cannot be logical and normal always; we can neglect people... we can break promises!!

Remember the time when cupid attacked you for the first time........

Remember how you felt. Why only you...... me too!!!

Yes, when cupid stroked the first time, we felt like we will do every possible thing to make it stay and we will do all our efforts.. to do what should be done but..... we are WE... we just forget it after sometime.... and then say

"TIMES CHANGE U KNOW"

Similarly our friends, our siblings, our parents...... with everybody over the years relations sometimes take a negative side.. and it is NOT because we become mature with age... itz because we become uncaring....

I am not an expert in relationships and I will request any serious, sophisticated, mature, developed, logically sound reader to forgive me for all this is a nonsense crap.. itz not for you buddy!!!!

Relationships just start and end. When they start, we have nothing in our hands... but we try hard and harder to carry them .... later when we have everything in our hands,, we don do anything.... they end!!!!! Sometimes things are different when even after you do what should be done.. they fail.. in that case nothing can be done.... because if someone just forgets everything and takes an appeal that he has to make a mess.. then nobody can do anything..... just fuck off such people.. they are not important though they seem to be....

I thought I will write something logical about relationships.. but even now cannot express the way I want it to be expressed.... in the similar fashion we fail to express the way we want to!!!!

BUT, itz not the words that are just important... itz that genuine extra unselfish effort that we make to make our relations fruitful is most important..

Life goes on... people meet and go... but relations are forever...

With this I sign off... because I am myself confused now. But when you are in a relation and are confused.. don fear to accept this... nobody can be 100% sure of what should be done when it comes to relationships!!!!

SO just hope for good,, think for good,, and keep trying to make the relations more beautiful.. YOU MAY NEVER WHEN WITH A NEW DAY.. everything may completely change!!!!

(sorry to end in a negative tone)

Keep investing in your relationships... come what may!!!!!